Friday, August 28, 2009

of wedding bells ringing

I am in the midst of preparing for our 2010 wedding. It is a bag of mixture emotions. Exhilarating yet confusing. There are so many wedding forums, magazines, articles and advices telling the bride-to-be what to do and what to look out for. They just further confused me.

Right now, we are giving ourselves until oct to decide on our wedding venue. We have shortlisted a couple of hotels that can accommodate our 55 tables. Yes, you did not read wrongly. 55 tables.

Before, I have envisioned my wedding to be an intimate family and close friends only sort of celebration. Somewhere outdoor, surrounded by pretty flowers and greens, breezy, with a live band and a small dance floor for the couple's first dance.

However, looking at the Singapore weather and the sheer number and demographic of guests, I don't think my original plan is going to work. I watched too much Hollywood movies.

In reality, my wedding is going to be a big celebration, somewhere indoor with AC, maybe no dance floor and definately no more mama mia style. Either way, I am still going to make it work, make it an enjoyable time for my guest and an unforgettable memories for me and MArk.

That's what matter most.

Its not about getting my way and having my dream wedding. Well, they all say a marriage involved 6 people. I couldn't agree more. I really hope to make the event and the journey of planning an enjoyable one for us and our parents.

Coming back to the venue, I have shortlisted a few:
-Grand Corpthone Waterfront
-Hilton
-Meritus Mandarin
-Pan Pacific
-Fairmont

We have so far been to GCW for recee. We are happy with what was offered. However, the real haggling will start once we confirm on the venue. haha..

Next step will be to source for the wedding gown and packages.

We might decide to take our bridal shoot overseas. (That's part of the deal he made with me if I accept his proposal. I'm easily bribed.) :)We are planning to do that in Mar/April next year.

Next step is to go on diet. Its really hard for someone like me. Even drinking water makes me put on weight. :(

Anyway, more of that later.

Need some rest now. I'm actually on MC today. Think all the work and wedding plans taking a toll on me.

3 comments:

Amber said...

Just by reading you talk about the preparations make me excited for you already!

Remember the days we squeak in awe when we see lovely couples getting wedd and beautiful wedding settings? Now God is giving you the time and space to create the moment as well as the amazing new beginning to everything wonderful. (:

Missing you truckloads, sunshine!

- Amber x

Chrissy said...

only you call me sunshine. :)

Yup, im somewhat excited too! if I don't have so much work to do. haha..

I'll rope you in when i need help. haha..

Anonymous said...

Only for you! (: